What is this dream life you are talking about?

It's so fashionable to have a vision and be creating your dream life. As you mature, you might find out that you've missed most of your targets and goals that often define this 'dream life'. You start building up resentment against yourself.⠀
But what is that dream life?⠀
⠀
The big house or the nomadic independent lifestyle?⠀
To be happy every day and live the high life?⠀
To be invited to red carpet events?⠀
To be connected to the world's high society?⠀
To have a bestselling book and smile each day like you on that cover?⠀
What is that dream life you are talking about?⠀
⠀
Or is it to walk your dog, have a mixture of jobs and creative freedom, a partner you can trust… Is it in the simple things that aren't usually advertised?⠀
Is it the little moments we don't share on Facebook?⠀
⠀
How many orgasms does your dream life contain and with whom? How much gentle touch or time for pleasure is involved?⠀
AND HOW MUCH SWEAT AND TEARS DO YOU ACCEPT AS PART OF THIS DREAM?⠀
⠀
This is where we can really get muddled.⠀
A DREAM is not necessarily something we'd like in "real".⠀
⠀
That idyllic family image of you all running down the sand dunes is just a snapshot. We don't see the 20min tantrum because Teddy fell into the puddle, the last pair of trousers being pooped into and wrecking your new shoes when changing it, the sleepless nights and differences in vaccination ideologies- we don't see that in the photo, we don't see that in the dream.⠀
How much importance do you put on living this dream life and how much judgment weighs upon you for not living the dreamy aspects so much?⠀
⠀
⠀
In a world where so much seems accessible, it's easy to feel entitled to the possibilities. I see it, it's possible, therefore I should have it.⠀
But this doesn't take into account one important factor. YOU.⠀
Your values, deep beliefs, hidden desires, unique quirks, energy levels, history and willingness to be present.⠀
⠀
What is your dream?⠀
How much space does it contain to be fully you and express yourself in the world with pleasure?⠀
Let's talk about that- let me know and JOIN OUR FREE BUSINESS BY PLEASURE COMMUNITY to chat more!