I Desire...

Want to figure out how to make your next steps the right ones? Most powerful, get clear on what you want and move forward action?

Let’s ‘figure it out’. Let’s plan. Decide. Commit. Take action - Why is this so hard for you?

Because this approach is way too outcome-oriented and missing the point - you are not designed to live this way.

The ‘masculine’ is too dominant in our culture and thinking.
The ‘feminine’ is NOT better than the masculine. It’s simply the opposite.

What we need is the INTERPLAY, the dance.
And remember, dancing is more than a sequence of moves.
Music is more than the sequence of notes. It’s not just the pattern. It’s what happens when the patterns are filled with expression - aka life force.

Instead of figuring out if the move into your bosses’ career is a good idea or not, let’s make a list of your DESIRES. Not what you want but what you desire. It’s similar but with a different quality. Just like “follow your heart” is not the same as “Do what you want”.
How about checking the opportunities through the filter of desire?

Create and allow a life fuelled by your heart’s content rather than your mind’s expectations. It will be more satisfying.
Can you still have money? Yes. You bet.
Your mind wants money because it feels safe and allows you to buy what you want. We get it!

The heart desires abundance and to feel free in your choices. To have the freedom to choose the new dress in the moment and delight in it. To have the ease of not cooking for yourself. Or to create a culinary orgasm with the finest ingredients (when you’ve done that, let me try it!)
I’m scanning for aliveness and pleasure. I happen to know that pleasure fuels you. I know that your experience of being fully alive living YOU is what you are ultimately looking for.

That’s why my clients create their success with joy and by being their ‘weird self’. Miracles happen, we laugh a lot.

For your next big move, let’s connect to freedom, abundance, desire, joy, feeling safe, love. Write out what represents THAT. Go after what has you feel alive.