#DearWoman, who is secretly terrified of being a narcissistic ...

#DearWoman, who is secretly terrified of being a narcissistic bitch if she's focussing on herself "too much" - you have NO idea how far you yet have to go. Because narcissism is not defined by another's labelling of you, 🏷️ nor your own - it's a grade on a spectrum you will probably find hard to hit because you are way too aware of anyone else. ⚖️ If you were really looking into the mirror, you'd see that you are worryingly high on the self-abandoning side of the scale, but you do it in such subtle ways that will have you fooled for a long time.