Self-love takes great discipline

"I want to achieve more. I need to be disciplined. Evelyne, can you hold me accountable?"⠀
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NO. 🚫⠀
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My clients are already disciplined. They work a lot. They have passion and drive. Holding them accountable is playing small.⠀
What they need is to take it easy, slow down and trust themselves so deeply that their miraculous life can unfold. ⠀

I know that when you are performing to your standards you ARE treating yourself well. ⠀
But when you mess up...the voices in your head switch tone, do they not?⠀
Self-love is such an over-used and under-accomplished concept. ⠀
To really back yourself takes great courage. And discipline. It is a lot easier to self-abandon than to stand up for your truth and your desires especially when they don't feel logical. ⠀
It's not easy to articulate a "no" when all boxes are ticked. ⠀
Loving yourself enough to trust your own inner senses is an art. ⠀
A path. ⠀
A practice. ⠀
And it takes discipline in the most distinguished way. ⠀
What is your experience when it comes to being loving towards yourself? Easy peasy or deep work?